DaisyMae, if you read this, here's how to change it so that comment moderation is turned off:
Sign in to your blog, go to Change Settings, click on Comments and about halfway down the page it says Enable comment moderation?, change that to No. Then go down to the bottom and click on Save Settings. If you entered an email address before, all of the comments you've gotten may be there, or if you didn't, they should be on the "Moderate Comments" page, which is under the Posting tab. There you should find all of the comments that have been left but have not been approved or rejected.
If anycat readin' this doesn't already know about DaisyMae, please post this on your blog. We don't know whose blogs she reads, so the more cats who post this, the better the chance is that she will find out what's going on and will realize that we are readin' & commentin'!